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[A Certain Shade of Green]

Well this is my first post on the hsn forum and the exams are over theres somethin else thats been bothering me. And i was wondering...
Do most people have girlfriends or boyfriends? And if you do , could u tell me how? Confidence is very very low and any help would be appreciated.
Maybe not the subject meant for general chat but hey, im a newbie!
Cheers for any help

[AppleCore]

How old are u?

Have u tried yet? if so, success or failure?

Its tough, depending, if u like someone and u get asked then its easier to say yes!.. but if u dont match.. then.. its awkward.. i guess u already knew that.. lol

[A Certain Shade of Green]

Im 16, and your definately right about if they like u its easier, but when they don't its soo frustrating! I havent really tried mostly because i don't really know what to do, like i think im a confident guy but i find it hard if you get me here. Cheers

[dfx]

Girls are battle grounds of raging hormones you should tread in very very very carefully. Forget about mature relationships till they're like in fifth year, which is when they normally get a grip.

[cc100]

Girls are battle grounds of raging hormones you should tread in very very very carefully.

Girls, this statement will be equally (if not more) true if you apply it to guys!

[A Certain Shade of Green]

Is this from past experience ? And does anyone know why i got this warning thing underneath my screename and that?

[AppleCore]

Is this from past experience ? And does anyone know why i got this warning thing underneath my screename and that?

past experience teaches that if u do like a girl, first find out enough about her and see if u still like her, but get too close to her as a friend and uve kinda f'ed it as they take u as a friend and no longer as "potential bf" material.. i suspect thats just me or it could be everyone.. dunno.. and yeah.. what is that Warning thing underneath the screename??

[Paul]

thats is if you step out of line on the forum eg constantly use bad language or offensiver terms.

If you do so, then mods for that forum, like me for General Chat, can give you a warning

[AppleCore]

thats is if you step out of line on the forum eg constantly use bad language or offensiver terms.

If you do so, then mods for that forum, like me for General Chat, can give you a warning

uuuuu.. wow! im sure u enjoy the power!!!!

[A Certain Shade of Green]

Do you mean i used offensive language or is it because i have just staarted posting?

[dfx]

If its on 0% don't worry.. doesn't mean a thing.

[dondon]

Girls are battle grounds of raging hormones you should tread in very very very carefully. Forget about mature relationships till they're like in fifth year, which is when they normally get a grip.

yes well girls are fifth year guys are 30 actually im not v sure if guys ever really mature!!

[AppleCore]

Girls are battle grounds of raging hormones you should tread in very very very carefully. Forget about mature relationships till they're like in fifth year, which is when they normally get a grip.

yes well girls are fifth year guys are 30 actually im not v sure if guys ever really mature!!

We do our best!.. some have succeeded .. some have.. just not succeeded yet!.. if at first u dont succeed .. try again!

[dondon]

i have to there are a small minority of mature guys under the age of 30 .lol

[dondon]

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past experience teaches that if u do like a girl, first find out enough about her and see if u still like her, but get too close to her as a friend and uve kinda f'ed it as they take u as a friend and no longer as "potential bf" material.. i suspect thats just me or it could be everyone.. dunno.. and yeah.. what is that Warning thing underneath the screename??
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i think actually thats a good idea because you know the person better and then they wont be someone you dont know and then they dont have to live up to what you have imagined them as.

[Dave]

yip i think itsreallyme is the expert i agree with him anyway

Now if only i could master the practical as well

I working on it

*Ladies queue up*

[AppleCore]

[quote=dondon,Jun 3 2005, 11:27 PM]
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past experience teaches that if u do like a girl, first find out enough about her and see if u still like her, but get too close to her as a friend and uve kinda f'ed it as they take u as a friend and no longer as "potential bf" material.. i suspect thats just me or it could be everyone.. dunno.. and yeah.. what is that Warning thing underneath the screename??
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i think actually thats a good idea because you know the person better and then they wont be someone you dont know and then they dont have to live up to what you have imagined them as.

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right, thought that was me only!.. jese, got some stories to tel, but id end up crashin the whole forum if i did loL!.. too long, complicated, and.. personally painful lol

[dondon]

aww!!
i think everybodys got at least 1 painful story in that department. although i think the 2nd part is right if your friends for too long the girl will think that you only want that and move on.

And why DAVE does every guys world seem to revolve around sex there is more than that to a relationship and i can prove it;
there was a couple in germany who were trying for a baby and after 2 years with no success they went to the doctors for tests to see if there was anything wrong . and the point of the story was they had been married for nearly ten years and lay in bed every night with their jammies on hoping she would get pregnant .lol
that is actually a true story i read it in a paper and it wasnt on april 1st.

[Dave]

who said anything about sex exactly

[AppleCore]

aww!!
i think everybodys got at least 1 painful story in that department. although i think the 2nd part is right if your friends for too long the girl will think that you only want that and move on.

And why DAVE does every guys world seem to revolve around sex there is more than that to a relationship and i can prove it;
there was a couple in germany who were trying for a baby and after 2 years with no success they went to the doctors for tests to see if there was anything wrong . and the point of the story was they had been married for nearly ten years and lay in bed every night with their jammies on hoping she would get pregnant .lol
that is actually a true story i read it in a paper and it wasnt on april 1st.

Im going to be a sissy and admit a little secret!.. well more like a fact!!.. us guys like to show ourselves as fearless unemotional beasts!!! (OH YEAH!!) but in reality, we do feel. When it comes to sex, i mean, i havnt heard of many sex toys to satisfy men??